I’m an incrementalist – bet you weren’t ready for that. OK, what I mean is that I’m not looking for perfection, I’m looking for things to get better, realizing that all choices have pros and cons. It’s like an optometrist checking your eyes – they keep giving you choices between two lenses- “is this better, or that?” And since I’ve hit the down slope after 40, I have to balance my near and distant vision. If I go for 20/15 with my contacts, there goes reading menus in romantic restaurants. Even bifocals are a comprimise. And that’s life. You’ll thank me later for saving you a hike up a mountaintop.